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We’ve all been there: Maybe you have a friend you always text first to hang out. Or you feel like your partner doesn’t notice that you’re usually the one who plans date night. While all relationships ebb and flow, it’s only human to be aware of our own work and effort—and to compare it to others’. But while noticing these patterns can be normal, it can quickly become unhealthy when the care we put into a relationship is conditional to what we receive in return.This is called “scorekeeping,” and it can be understood as “mentally tracking effort to figure out…
For most of my life, I lived with an internal alarm system that never turned off. I expected disaster around every corner—financial collapse, professional failure, health crises, humiliation, and loss. Catastrophic thinking wasn’t just a habit; it felt like responsibility. It felt like vigilance. It felt like survival. As a documentary filmmaker, anticipating the unexpected is part of the job. We learn to obsess over what could go wrong—equipment failures, weather shifts, emotional volatility, permissions falling apart, safety concerns, or a once-in-a-lifetime moment slipping away. We become experts at scanning for danger, preparing for the failure before it arrives. It…
Kitchen drawers filled with warped plastic stirring spoons, gunky spatulas, or frayed nylon turners are easy spots to declutter. In the process, swap in durable kitchen utensils made from bamboo, teak, silicone, or stainless steel, all materials that can handle higher heats than plastic or nylon and won’t leave chemicals or microplastics in your food. We searched through all the non-toxic cooking utensil options at Amazon to find which ones shoppers love most. Best Non-Toxic Cooking Utensils at Amazon Riveira Dark Bamboo Wooden Spoon Set Amazon The easiest non-toxic swap to make is switching your half-melted plastic utensils to sturdy…
Key Takeaways Autistic people might feel rejection more deeply, which is sometimes called rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD). RSD can cause feelings of sadness and anxiety, leading autistic individuals to mask their true selves and risk burnout. Although RSD isn’t an official diagnosis, it is a familiar experience for many autistic people. Nobody likes rejection, but for many autistic people, even perceived rejection or failure can be *intensely* emotionally painful—sometimes so much so that it’s hard to cope with those feelings. This phenomenon is known as rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD). Not all autistic people experience RSD, but it can create serious…
Dumplings topped the list as the overall customer favorite.New product winners highlight high-protein options and bold flavors.Seasonal and year-round favorites span snacks, meals and self-care. Trader Joe’s is known for its year-round favorites and seasonal highlights. The store has everything from snacks to meals to desserts, plus home and beauty care, and loves to put its own twist on classic products. To shine some light on all those categories of delicious eats and fun finds, Trader Joe’s has crowned its 17th Annual Customer Choice Award Winners, and the list has some fun favorites and surprises. Dumplings appear in multiple categories,…
Key Takeaways People with dissociative identity disorder (DID) have two or more different identities, each with its own traits and history.DID is often linked to a history of severe trauma, such as repeated physical or sexual abuse in childhood.Treatment for DID mainly involves psychotherapy to help manage the condition. Dissociative identity disorder (DID) is a condition marked by the presence of two or more distinct personalities within one individual. The mental health condition, which used to be called multiple personality disorder, is one of the dissociative disorders listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5).…
I’m something of a treadmill hater. When I do hop on one, it’s only during times when it’s truly unsafe to run outdoors. I know that the treadmill brings all the same physical benefits as running outside (because no, it is not “cheating” on your workout). However, I mourn all the mental perks of spending time outside. That’s why it’s necessary for me to use whatever mental tricks I can to transform a monotonous slog into an actually enjoyable workout. The best part? None of these require special equipment or significant time investment—just small, smart adjustments to your routine. Whatever…
Please note, this review was originally written by Katy Bradbury, but subsequent additions may be added by the Good Food team.Your immune system is constantly working behind the scenes to protect you from infection, and what you eat can make a real difference to how well it functions. While no supplement can stop you from catching a cold or flu, research shows that certain nutrients play a vital role in keeping your immune response strong.A balanced diet packed with fruit, vegetables, whole grains, healthy fats and lean protein should always come first, but supplements can help to fill gaps, particularly…
3. StressWhile experts don’t know exactly why, stress is a common psoriasis trigger. Research suggests that psychological stress plays a regulatory role in the immune system, increasing inflammation in the body and affecting the skin barrier.[7]A stressful trigger could come in the form of a move, a breakup, or the loss of a job. And, of course, psoriasis itself is stressful. As a result, stress and psoriasis symptoms can fuel each other: Psoriasis is a chronic disease that causes stress, and stress makes psoriasis worse.[7]You can help reduce stress by learning stress management techniques, such as meditation or yoga, and…
Everyone farts—it’s a biological fact. But whether you interpret that odorous puff of air as a harmless (even funny) fact of life or a gross human indecency turns out to be surprisingly telling—and apparently, controversial enough to spark a passionate Internet debate: Were you raised in a fart-pride household, or a fart-shame one? In other words: Do you feel perfectly comfortable letting one slip in front of your family, or does the thought sound rude, awkward, or just plain disgusting?Our reactions to something as universal as passing gas are influenced by a variety of different factors. “Sometimes, it’s as simple…