Key Takeaways
- Rewatching your favorite shows can be an easy way to unwind after a long day, a soothing form of self-care, and a nostalgic connection to the past.
- It can lighten your cognitive load, boost your mood, and relieve stress and anxiety.
- Be mindful of when it’s helping you recharge versus when it’s keeping you stuck.
Picture this: you’ve had one of those days. Work felt endless, traffic was a nightmare, and by the time you’ve finally made it home, you just want to watch some mindless TV. So, you curl up on the couch, hit play on “Friends,” “The Office,” or “Brooklyn 99,” and suddenly life feels a little lighter and happier. You’ve seen them a thousand times, but it doesn’t matter.
We all have those shows we keep returning to because they feel like a warm comfy blanket. “The daily grind can be mentally exhausting, which is why nostalgic shows feel so comforting. Instead of adding to our mental load, they give us a much-needed escape,” says Clarissa Silva, a behavioral scientist.
The daily grind can be mentally exhausting, which is why nostalgic shows feel so comforting. Instead of adding to our mental load, they give us a much-needed escape.
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CLARISSA SILVA, BEHAVIORAL SCIENTIST
“Sometimes, we need life to stay exactly the same for a few hours so that it can feel safe and stable,” says Aimee Daramus, PsyD, a clinical psychologist at Clarity Clinic, Chicago.
Why We Rewatch: The Psychology Behind It
In a world with a seemingly endless number of new shows and movies to watch, we sometimes feel guilty for reverting to an old favorite, like we’re being lazy and taking the easy way out. But in reality, there’s a lot more to it.
These are some of the reasons why we keep coming back to familiar stories and characters:
- Relaxation: With a new show, we have to follow all the plot lines, familiarize ourselves with new characters, figure out their motivations, and keep up with what’s happening. With a show we’ve already seen, there’s no pressure and our brain doesn’t have to work as hard. Familiar jokes, catchphrases, and characters can instantly lift our mood and help us unwind.
- Comfort and predictability: Our daily lives can be stressful and unpredictable. Old shows offer a sense of comfort and predictability because we know exactly what’s going to happen. There are no shocking plot twists or sad endings to worry about. Knowing exactly what’s going to happen makes us feel safe and soothed, especially when life feels stressful and chaotic.
- Nostalgia: Old shows reconnect us with past versions of ourselves, reminding us of who we were and what life looked like when we first watched them. Research shows us that watching classic content brings back memories from happier, simpler times, like when we were kids.
- Emotional connection: The (one-sided) emotional bonds we form with our favorite fictional characters are known as parasocial relationships. We grow attached to characters over time, so when we rewatch a show, it feels like we’re spending time with old friends, which can provide a sense of companionship and belonging. Research indicates that many people return to familiar content for these parasocial interactions.
- Friendship: Fictional characters are comforting because they always do and say the same things the same way and are always available to us in ways that human friends can’t be, says Dr. Daramus. “Each episode will always be exactly the same, and the characters will always be there for you.”
- Background noise: Sometimes it’s not about watching closely, but having something familiar on while we cook, clean, or scroll.
- Self-care: Taking some time off to chill and watch an old show helps us relax and recharge. It’s a form of self-care that can be quite restorative, says Silva.
- New nuances: Whether it’s a witty line, a funny face, or a reference we missed before, rewatching a show can help us discover delightful new details.
- Shared culture: Sharing our favorite show with a loved one can be a special experience. Further, being able to discuss episodes, quote lines from the show, recommend it to others, or make inside jokes bonds us with other fans, bringing a sense of community and belonging.
When life is full of change, chaos, or drama, rewatching an old favorite TV show can feel like getting together with old friends.
Science-Backed Mental Health Benefits
These are some of the mental health benefits of rewatching your favorite shows:
- Reduces cognitive load: “Our brains need to repair from the constant overstimulus we endure throughout the day,” says Silva. Watching a new show takes a lot of cognitive effort, but rewatching something gives our mind a break when we’re exhausted.
- Relieves stress and anxiety: Watching TV can be a form of escape when we’re stressed and anxious. Familiar storylines can feel grounding when life feels unpredictable, unlike the wild emotional rollercoaster of new content. Because we’ve seen it before, we know exactly how every episode ends, joke lands, and big twist resolves. “When we’re stressed and overloaded, it gives us a sense of control,” says Silva.
- Helps regulate emotions: When we’re feeling upset or overwhelmed, a comforting rewatch can help us regulate our emotions. We know the characters will overcome their challenges and that the ending will be happy, which gives us a sense of hope and comfort in our own lives.
- Combats decision fatigue: Our lives are packed with decisions, from what to wear in the morning to what to eat for dinner. This constant decision-making is exhausting. When there are way too many choices on streaming apps, going back to what’s familiar helps us avoid decision fatigue. It helps to not have to make more decisions in our day, says Silva.
- Boosts mood: Seeing funny or heartwarming moments we love can instantly cheer us up. In addition to helping us feel less depleted, it also provides our brains with a dopamine infusion, Silva explains.
- Creates a sense of belonging: Those characters may not be real, but we might still feel a strong connection to them. This connection can be comforting and create a sense of belonging.
- Alleviates boredom and loneliness: Research indicates that the nostalgia we experience when we rewatch a show can fight boredom, loneliness, and even homesickness, for those living away from home.
Sometimes, we need life to stay exactly the same for a few hours so that it can feel safe and stable.
Rewatching Shows As a Coping Strategy
Rewatching old favorites can actually be a surprisingly healthy coping strategy. Research shows that watching some TV now and then can serve as an easy way to escape reality for a little while and cope with anxiety, stress, and negative emotions.
However, this behavior might be a red flag if it starts replacing other healthy ways of coping with difficult emotions. Research indicates that it can become an unhealthy habit if we binge watch excessively in order to cope with loneliness, depression, or social anxiety.
While rewatching comfort shows has emotional, cognitive, and psychological benefits, it’s important to be mindful if this habit becomes an avoidance tactic or a replacement for engaging with new experiences, says Silva.
While rewatching comfort shows has emotional, cognitive, and psychological benefits, it’s important to be mindful if this habit becomes an avoidance tactic or a replacement for engaging with new experiences.
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CLARISSA SILVA, BEHAVIORAL SCIENTIST
For example, if you’re constantly choosing to binge the same series instead of sleeping, connecting with friends, or tackling things that need your attention, it could be more of an avoidance strategy than self-care.
Rewatching shows should be balanced with in-person, healthy relationships, says Dr. Daramus. “You need to be mindful of this habit if you’re pushing away healthy relationships in the real world to stay in the fictional world, or when you can’t cope with the change and compromise that naturally occurs in human relationships.”
Don’t worry though, more often than not, chilling with a favorite show is harmless and fun, says Dr. Daramus.
Comfort is great, but growth happens when we step outside of it too. If your rewatching feels like it’s keeping you from living your life, doing new things, or spending time with people, it might be time to pause and check in with yourself.
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